You cannot check out of the game. Losing is bad, but refusing to play is worse. If you lose you are a loser in that moment. But if you refuse to play you are a coward forever.
Violence, more than any other currency is not a distortion of the free market – it IS the ultimate free market.
Good and evil are ideas from an outdated Christian moral code intended to keep the masses quiet and subservient. In the common world, success is given to the strong and failure thrust upon the weak. That is all.
Women will smell out weakness and chase it down mercilessly like a piranha smelling blood. It is in their nature, they cannot help themselves. Head it off by taking the initiative and squashing her pre-emptively before she is able to probe you.
Image is everything. Substance only matters insofar as it contributes to image.
The harder you work, the harder you must work to HIDE how hard you work. Women don’t want to know about the machinery, they want to laugh and admire the product only.
You don’t get the women you want, you get the women who want you.
Women hold the power over sex, men hold the power over commitment. So these two are equivalent:
- A girl who goes on endless dates but doesn’t put out.
- A man who fucks a girl endlessly but will not commit.
These two are also equivalent:
- A man who rapes a woman.
- A woman who cheats on or divorces her husband.
Girls are taught to compete with boys from a young age. You don’t reward your competitor, you don’t praise the people you’ve spent your life working hard to out-do. Any girl who attempts to compete with men on their turf should expect to be treated like a man, i.e. without mercy or sympathy.
Victory does not necessarily come to the man with superior strength or skill, but rather the one who is able to keep his opponent reactive and on the back foot.
Battles are already won or lost with words before it ever comes to blows.
There is no such thing as a “soul-mate”. No special woman. No one-itis. Just women.
The only woman who will ever love you unconditionally is your mother. All other love is conditional on your performance and can be taken away at any time. You’re built for it, so don’t whine about it. Embrace the role of performer and accept that as a man it is your duty and privilege to perform until you die.
Likewise, nobody except your mother wants to know about your problems. Other people only care about you to the extent of the positive experiences you can give them.
Losers focus on winners. Winners focus on winning.
Being tall, good-looking and physically attractive is the ultimate advantage. Men with these traits can get away with almost anything. Men who are not any of these things must work 10x as hard and work hard to make it seem effortless to see the same results.
There is no such thing as an “adult”. We are all just big children and the same rules apply to us now as they did in the playground. Adults gang up on each other. Adults are irrationally cruel. Cruelty can be fun. Popularity is a competition. Social status is everything.
As a man you have one single purpose, that is to produce the best possible genetic offspring and ensure their survival. Everything else is an illusion sold to you by somebody with an agenda.
Deception is an integral part of dating, war, business and life. Learn to embrace it. If you can’t see the sucker at the table, it’s probably you.
A key that unlocks many locks is an excellent key. A lock that is unlocked by many keys is a useless lock.
Most men have an instinctive moral code, most women are amoral. A woman’s natural propensity is to be duplicitous (AKA lie) and she will always lie if it is in her best interest to do so.
Only men care about getting to the truth. Women are not interested in truth. They only care about the emotional picture you paint in her mind.
Women give terrible dating advice because they are unable to see the world from the man’s perspective. She is a passenger in life and cannot know what it means to be the driver. She is physically incapable of understanding that for everything that “just happens” to her, there was a man doing the hard work behind the scenes to make it happen.
You can never stop working. The verb “to work” literally means “to function”. The moment you stop working (aka functioning) is by definition the moment you start dying.
Dating is a marketplace just like any other. Your success with women is far more a function of local supply and demand than it is of your inherent value as a man.
Just because something is hard does not make it worthwhile. The right way is the easiest and most obvious one. People often avoid what is easy and obvious because they don’t believe in themselves strongly enough to accept that it can be that easy.
A huge amount of what happens in your life is based on luck. Being in the right place at the right time. The idea that we have significant control over our lives is laughable. The paradox is that the moment you start believing that success is determined by good luck is the moment you stop having any.
Women are lazy and not perfect “hypergamy machines” like some men believe them to be. They are flawed and horny human beings. Often familiarity and convenience outweighs all other factors.
In your twenties you can EITHER work on your professional life OR try to sleep with as many girls as possible. There is no real correct choice and either option comes with a price that you must pay in your thirties and beyond.
A better question to ask is “What EXACTLY do I want out of life and what EXACTLY am I doing right now to get EXACTLY that? If you can answer that question truthfully you will be the most Alpha motherfucker you will ever need to be.
And lastly, a quote from Oscar Wilde which is as relevant today as it ever was:
I am afraid that women appreciate cruelty, downright cruelty, more than anything else. They have wonderfully primitive instincts. We have emancipated them, but they remain slaves looking for their masters all the same. They love being dominated.