I am kicking myself right now because I let a hot little 22yo piece of Chilean ass slip through my fingers, and I have nobody to blame but myself.
I was on the way home on the tube, and on the platform I saw this little piece of ass in high platform boots, a black mini-skirt and skimpy top with long brown hair and piercings. I had to talk to her so I walked over and told her in a low voice that I thought she was attractive. She immediately smiled coyly and seemed very receptive so we kept chatting as we walked onto the train.
On the train she sat down with an empty seat next to her. It seemed like an invitation but I was keenly aware that girls don’t have anywhere to run on the train so some tact is needed. I asked politely if she wouldn’t mind that I sat next to her and she said of course it’s fine. I knew she was into me at this point, it turned out she was from Chile so I was able to show off some of my Spanish and talk a bit about her home country. She was visiting for a few days, had just spent the entire afternoon walking around London by herself and was now on her way to a modelling photo-shoot.
It came up to my station and I said, this is my stop I’m getting off here, let me take your number. She said, well I have an hour before my photo-shoot why don’t I come with you. I was surprised but reacted quickly and didn’t show it, so I grabbed her hand and we got off at my stop.
At this point my SDL radar should have been going off on red alert, but for some reason it just didn’t register. I took her for a little walk vaguely in the direction of home, we went to the park and chatted for a few minutes. She was travelling by herself so I got a lot of mileage out of cold-reading her as independent and adventurous, she seemed to like this classification and had no problem with me touching her anywhere I wanted to. I mentioned that we should get tea at my house. She says oh no I don’t like tea so I suggested we get a drink instead, which she was enthusiastic about.
At this point part of me knew the lay was on the cards, so I suggested we just stop by my house so I could pick up my scarf. No opposition to that – we walked to my house, I went inside and she hung around on the porch so I beckoned her impatiently to come inside and in she came. Up to this point, everything I did was the right move. She was already in my house, dressed slutty, frankly she was ready to go.
Here is what I should have done:
Go up to my room to “get my scarf”, then shout down the stairs “hey come up I gotta show you something real quick”. She would have come up to my room, there I could have shoved her against the wall and started biting her neck. Most likely she’d have folded like a little Chilean cat, I would have thrown her on the bed, pulled up that skimpy miniskirt and fucked her with her panties pulled to one side. Otherwise at least I would have got a very clear no.
Here is what I actually did:
Got my scarf, went downstairs and walked with her to the local pub to get a drink. She was happy to do this and more than happy to sit and chat with me for the rest of the hour until she had to leave for her modelling shoot. She let me touch her everywhere and giggled when I stroked the inside of her bare thighs. Then she went and I was left frustrated, holding my dick in my hands like a mug.
She left the next day and I never got the chance to follow up and organise a second date with her.
This girl was ready to go, but she only had a tiny window of opportunity which was that one hour in which I talked to her. As a man I failed to make sex happen during this window, after which it slammed shut. Even by the time we got to the pub it wasn’t too late, I probably could have toilet-pulled her but I was so fixated on not fucking up and thinking about a second date that it didn’t occur to me. Basically it boiled down to being afraid to lose her through too much aggression and moving too fast. But she was leaving the country anyway the next day… so in this scenario there was nothing for me to lose by being aggressive and everything to gain. She would have got an exciting, fun experience and I would have got to smash that luscious, barely covered up young ass.
It pained me a little to write this post-mortem but we have to learn from frustrations and near-misses or we will be doomed to repeat them. This girl was giving clear signs of being open for fast sex, it’s rare to find a girl in this state of receptiveness but next time I see a girl acting like this one did, who is leaving within a matter of days, I will realise immediately that it’s on and go for broke. There’s nothing to lose – if you scare her off by being too aggressive, it wasn’t going to happen anyway so you didn’t really lose anything at all.
The line about needing to pick up my scarf was a good one since it disarmed any residual ASD. I will use that one again, except next time I’ll close the deal once she’s in my house.